cant win

no matter how much i do, no matter how hard i try, i just cant win. im always behind. there is always lotsss more that needs to be done. and i know that having a clean house is not what life is all about, by any means, and i know the kids wont look back and appreciate any of the housework either. but i would just like to be caught up :enough: that i dont feel like im drowning and i dont feel like im going to be buried if i take a day off to simply enjoy my kids. it is such a losing battle. and its frustrating. and overwhelming. grrrrrrr.